“Never talk to strangers” is a rule we all grow up learning. Talking to strangers poses a risk. One would think that most unexpected kidnappings start with a simple exchange of conversation, and so we are taught to keep to ourselves and avoid conversing with strangers as kids.
As an adult, you might begin to think that you’re safe from the dangers and risks of talking to strangers, but are you really? As it turns out, there are real dangers and disadvantages of talking to strangers for both children and adults!
Before you get yourself well and truly ensconced in a conversation with a stranger, trust your gut instinct. Does the person in question look relaxed? Do you feel uncomfortable in their presence? Are they being a bit pushy or demanding? We have to rely on our senses and gut feel when dealing with strangers. Because it can be so hard to simply judge someone on their appearance, it’s often easier to just keep to yourself, to remain as safe as possible.
If you want to learn about the possible dangers and disadvantages of talking to strangers, simply read on.
These are 14 dangers and disadvantages associated with talking to strangers:
1. The person could end up being a kidnapper.
This one seems a little obvious, but it should be noted. Of course, not every stranger is a kidnapper. In fact, statistically, not many of them are, but that doesn’t mean that you can rule out the possibility altogether.
2. You could start forming a relationship with someone who is dangerous.
If you simply start speaking to a stranger that isn’t known to anyone in your immediate circle, you won’t really know what sort of person the stranger is. You could proceed to form a friendship or relationship with this person and only find out too late that they are a criminal or unstable.
3. You might unwittingly give too much information away.
With identity theft becoming such a big thing in today’s society, a simple conversation with a stranger could put you in danger. You might end up giving things away, such as your full name, contact number, address. The stranger might even catch a glimpse of your credit card if you are chatting in a store queue. Always be careful of what you tell people when you don’t know them.
4. Talking to a stranger can end up being time-consuming.
If you’re the type of person that has a lot on your plate and not much time to waste, talking to strangers could end up being a waste of precious time. You might find yourself caught in a conversation and unable to get going, which can be quite inconvenient if you have things to do.
5. You could end up agreeing to do things you don’t want to do.
When chatting to other people, especially people you don’t know, it’s natural to want to please them or make a good impression. It’s this part of our human nature that puts us at risk. You could end up saying you will do things you don’t really want to do. You could agree to go out with said person; you might agree to give them a ride or even attend an event.
6. The stranger might be trying to sexually solicit you.
Many people are sexually solicited online. When it comes to chatting to people online, you could be putting yourself at risk.
Statistics show us that a large portion of the population has been contacted by someone online that they don’t know and have never met. Most of the recipients of these messages do actually respond, and in many instances, the person on the other side is trying to solicit them sexually.
7. You may end up having to spread yourself around too thinly.
How much time do you have available to spend on new people? The more strangers you talk to, the more contacts you make, the more friendships you develop…, the less time you have to yourself. Yes, this seems like a rather selfish disadvantage of talking to strangers, but it is something to be considered.
If you already feel like you don’t have much time to keep up with your social life, you might want to limit how many strangers you form new connections with.
8. You could be mugged or assaulted.
Simply talking to a stranger can get you into a very tricky personal safety situation. Sometimes a stranger is just not who they appear to be. A nicely dressed stranger could be an ATM card skimmer or even a mugger. You could end up being attacked, assaulted, or worse.
9. The stranger could be distracting you from something more sinister happening.
Could it be that the stranger you are suddenly talking to is acting as some sort of distraction? It may very well be the case!
When talking to a stranger, you might not be too aware of what is happening around you. Someone might be trying to distract you from something happening so that you aren’t a witness to a crime. You could be chatting away only not to notice that the stranger’s sidekick is breaking into your vehicle or stealing your child. Be vigilant whenever you are talking to someone that you don’t know.
10. You could end up being scammed.
Scammers are so good at what they do that you probably won’t even notice it happening. You could be chatting to a stranger who seems nice and suddenly find yourself being scammed.
11. Too much chatting could result in you being late.
If your day runs on a tight schedule, this one might make the most sense to you. Time management can be hard, especially when strangers who want to chat come along. One of the less dangerous but quite annoying disadvantages of talking to strangers is that a long chat can end up making you late. If you’re in a hurry and take the time to respond to a stranger trying to talk to you, your schedule for the rest of the day might be completely out of synch.
12. A stranger given attention might become a nuisance in the future.
Have you ever simply spoken to someone out of kindness and then found that they don’t leave you alone? Someone who shows up at your work, constantly calls you, and tries hard to get your attention can be quite an inconvenience. Talking to a stranger could get you into this very situation.
13. You could end up getting hurt…emotionally.
You could meet the love of your life by talking to a complete stranger. You might wonder what’s wrong with that! That’s a good thing, right? What if it doesn’t work out? What if the stranger who becomes your nearest and dearest breaks it off with you and you end up hurt? Talking to a stranger could result in you being hurt.
14. Human trafficking happens to adults too!
Many people think that only children are kidnapped for human trafficking, but the reality is that adult human trafficking is on the rise. Children and adults are being taken and never seen without a trace, and chances are that the person involved in orchestrating the whole thing was once a complete stranger to them. That’s quite something to think about, isn’t it?
Talking to strangers isn’t always dangerous or disadvantageous, but it can be. Before you get into the habit of talking to strangers, it’s good to be aware of the pros and cons of doing so. Whether you choose to talk to a new stranger or not; now you are more informed!